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| | Sunday, July 6, 2008 at 9:51 PM | | July 4th was quiet, but good the way I like it. Been many family problems ongoing for a while, and sad to say my grandson has moved out today...and chosen to be with his mother..again, traveling right into an abusive relationship...rather then stay with me in a stable home with some rules. He is fourteen, and has had a rough time of it since he was moved out last time. His mom has bounced him like a ball, and so many problems with him, that everytime I get him back..is is jam packed with problems, more...leaving me t o pick up the pieces, and try to build him back up again. Mom flat out says she does not want him,(has given up on her other 4 children) She became a welfare mom and kept all his support funds...and got an apartment for her boyfriend (Woman beater) and refused to help Craig out, thinking myself and hubby owe her and then some...and financially with Rick being laid off 3 times last year, we were almost kicked to the curb. So, I had the choice to go to court and all that stuff, and decided against it. I never wanted to be anything but to be grandmom. We gave my daughter so many options and chances to get away from this man police and all and refused. So I guess next step is child and youth investigating the matter. My illness comes into play here because of the stress, with diabetes and end stage liver disease, if I want to live a while longer I must maintain my health. My mental state has been bad, because of the boy and his attitude towards everything. He loves me most so I have taken most of his anger. Well nuff said, those that know me will relate to much of this story. All I can do is pray he will be alright. My hat is off to any mom that can step thru teenage hood with their son, and do a good job of it. Under normal circumstances, its NOT easy. Unfortunatly my family is purely disfunctional. Has been since I was born, and my mother met my abusive stepfather. I hope the abuse does not carry on with the grandkids.
Sorry Had To Vent, I hurt.
Take care all
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| Tuesday, July 1, 2008 at 8:46 AM | | Hello Friends and Subscribers,
Once again, for the second time, not that its a big deal or anything but I need a break from this place. Zack and Jen are two of the very nicest people I have every met, and their son Joey a charm. I knew them before here too. I met them yes. I am not liking the directions LV is taking good vs evil, or love and hate and all that crap. If we cannot have a community....that just gets along, this be internet or not, I am tired of seeing my friends hurt and distressed. more...I have been thru this before with the Howard thing. I was hurt and distressed, Now this involves two very special friends in my life. If I cannot be free and happy here and worry about saying the wrong thing to the wrong person, there is no sense in being here. I am seeing NO FUN in any of this. I am just a tiny little speck in a big world out there, and it seems many thrive on problems. I thrive on getting up in the morning, and remaining stress free. Lots of my other friends are having their opinions on Zack and Jen. This bothers me. I must agree to disagree. Take care and peace out. less | |
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